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Secret Chamber - The Hall of Re-Balance

When Mind Re-Unites with Heart.
When Safety Re-Connects with Stability

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Welcome to THE HALL OF RE-BALANCE

Everything in Human Nature is About Balance

Welcome to this conscious chamber, the Hall of Re-Balance.

 

In this chamber we offer you a real gem: a FREE training!

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Especially for you, we have developed our groundbreaking Inner-Father-and Inner- Mother field a.k.a. our Stability and Safety Field theory and training.

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THIS THEORY AND TRAINING IS UNIQUE and goes beyond e.g. the theories and training of Gabor Maté and Bessel Vanderkolk and others.

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In most theories and trainings related to trauma, the restoration of inner-safety ( nurturing, compassion ) is made prevalent. We agree this is an important part of your trauma healing. However, without restoring the Stability or Father-field inside you, the restoration of Safety will never get a proper and lasting foundation.

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Safety & Stability Field Training

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Important: Keep in mind that when we speak about the inner-mother or inner-father, this is not gender-based, but archetypal-based.

Both the Inner-Father (Stability) and the Inner-Mother (Safety) fields are indivisible energy fields within both the biological male and female. Like Carl Jung´s Animus and Anima.

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In short:

Many people focus on feeling safe.

But true emotional safety depends upon stability.

A missing or absent father-field equals missing “stability circuitry.”

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The Inner-Mother Field

Represents:

  • emotions

  • connection

  • intimacy

  • creativity

  • self-worth

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When stability or inner-father-field collapses:

  • anxiety increases

  • overthinking grows

  • burnout appears

  • children begin taking over

  • relationships become chaotic​
     

Without stability, your nervous system (a.k.a. the Inner-Child) struggles to feel safe.

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Inner Peace requires both:

Safety

and

Stability

Trauma continues because the stability system (or the healthy father field) never came online.

All trauma loops ultimately trace back to this missing stabilizer or inner father.


We present you our FREE Safety & Stability Field Training.

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The Inner-Father Field

Represents:

  • structure

  • boundaries

  • decisions

  • leadership

  • direction

​May the Source be with you..

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Safety & Stability Field Training

​​First, feel free to Download our FREE Workbook
with additional information and plenty of exercises

Below you will find an overview of the training videos. We first start with a video introducing you to our Safety- and Stability theory and why this training can have such an impact on your well-being.
 

Subsequently, you will find the Safety- and Stability Course videos, divided in 8 separate sessions. Follow them in the designated order; the FREE workbook will follow this sequence as well.
The buttons below will guide you to the related video on our YouTube channel.

 

After the training, you will find some extra videos about the importance of Stability in Parenting your children, links to 8 extra bonus videos about creating Structure in your life, applying your newly required Stability Field and about the Internalized Parent, often still disturbing our Safety and Stability Fields.
 

Enjoy your journey with love from us.

Introduction video about the Safety and Stability Theory:

Importance of the Stability ( Father ) Field in Trauma Healing

Safety- and Stability Training Course videos sessions 1-4:

Below you will find our training videos, divided in 8 sessions of 3 video´s each.
The buttons will link you to the video on our YouTube channel.

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Stability Field Training video 1.1

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Stability Field Training video 1.2

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Stability Field Training video 1.3

Why You Feel Unsafe 

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Stability Field Training video 2.1

The Hidden Cost of No Structure

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Stability Field Training video 2.2

Exercise: Life Without Structure Scan

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Stability Field Training video 2.3

You Are Not Lazy

The Part of You that Stepped Back

Guided Exercise: Meeting the Avoiding Self

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Stability Field Training video 3.1

The Lie ´I failed´

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Stability Field Training video 3.2

You Were Never Trained

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Stability Field Training video 3.3

Guided Exercise: The Child that Never Happened

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Stability Field Training video 4.1

Why You Can´t Say No

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Stability Field Training video 4.2

What a Boundary Actually is

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Stability Field Training video 4.3

Practice: Simple Boundaries in Real Life

Safety- and Stability Training Course videos: sessions 5-8

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Stability Field Training video 5.1

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Stability Field Training video 5.2

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Stability Field Training video 5.3

Why Your Boundaries Collapse

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Stability Field Training video 6.1

How to Hold Your Ground

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Stability Field Training video 6.2

Holding your Boundary under Pressure

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Stability Field Training video 6.3

Indecision is Fear

Why you wait for certainty

Practice: Rapid decision training

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Stability Field Training video 7.1

The Lie ´I failed´

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Stability Field Training video 7.2

You Were Never Trained

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Stability Field Training video 7.3

Guided Exercise: The Child that Never Happened

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Stability Field Training video 8.1

You were never meant to choose

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Stability Field Training video 8.2

You can feel without losing yourself

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Stability Field Training video 8.3

Guided Integration: Becoming the Container

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Stability Field Training Bonus

Declaration I Am.

Safety- and Stability Training Course extra Parent videos

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Parenting The Stability Field – Part 1
 

Why children don´t need perfect parents.. they need stable ones

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Parenting The Stability Field - Part 2
 

The Missing Father or Stability Field in Parenting

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Parenting The Stability Field - Part 3

Why Chaos gets attention

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Parenting The Stability Field – Part 4
 

How to Restore Stability at Home

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Parenting The Stability Field - Part 5
 

The Mother Who Leads

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Parenting The Stability Field - Part 6

Stabilizing Money and Parenting Together

Safety- and Stability Training Course extra
The Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart

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Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart (1)

Mom and Dad.. get out off my head!!

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Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart (2)

Help, my parents still live in my head.. rent free!

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Internalized parent in mind & heart (3)
 

Don´t treat me like that!

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Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart (4)

How Love-connection becomes Responsibility, Obligation, Disconnection.

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Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart (5)

Helplessness: the doorway to nervous system repair.

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Internalized parent in mind & heart (6)
 

Why helplessness is sacred

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Internalized Parent in Mind & Heart (7)

How love and curiosity return to the wonder of the inner-child.

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